Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, iintaka zothando yenye yeentaka ezithandwayo njengezilwanyana zasekhaya. Zinemibala emangalisayo kwaye ziyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwinzala. Phakathi kwezona ntaka zifunwayo yintaka yothando eluhlaza. Imfuno enkulu ekhoyo yolu didi luninzi lubangelwa kukuba Yahluke ngokupheleleyo kwizinyanya zayo. singasathethi ke ukuba zintle kangakanani na ngenxa yala mbala uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka wentaka engaqhelekanga.
Ukuze wazi ngakumbi malunga nentaka yothando eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, okanye intaka yothando eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, siza kuchaza kakuhle ukuba yintoni esi silwanyana kwaye siza kuthetha ngotshintsho olunoxanduva lokudalwa kwayo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeentaka ezithanda uthando eziluhlaza.