Iikati ngokubanzi ziyakuthanda ukudlala. Kwaye ukuba sithetha ngamantshontsho, abayithandi nje kuphela kodwa yinto ekufuneka bayenze imihla ngemihla ukutshisa amandla, ewe, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuphucula iindlela zabo zokuzingela. Asinakulibala ukuba yinyamakazi, kwaye ngenxa yoko sisitshaba.
Umzimba wakhe ububungqina boku: amazinyo akhe, anamandla kwaye abukhali; iinzipho ezikwaziyo ukukrazula ulusu; umbono wasebusuku abaninzi bethu abangathanda ukuba nawo... Kodwa, kungenxa yesi sizathu kanye kuyimfuneko ukwazi indlela yokudlala nekati. Kuba masijongane nayo: Ayikokuzonwabisa nje. Ukhuseleko, lomhlobo wakho kunye nolwakho, nalo lubalulekile.
Ikati, kuba iyinto enqabileyo-ibhola encinci yeenwele (okanye ngaphandle kweenwele, ukuba luhlobo olufana ne-Sphynx okanye efanayo, abanalo phantse). uchitha ixesha elininzi esenza into enye: ukudlala. Uya kudlala nabantwana bakowabo nonina, ebatsibela, esilwa, ade abalume. Ukuba kukho nasiphi na isizalwana saso esisezintlungwini, siya kukwazisa ngokuzenzekelayo, ngokuncwina, ukufutha, okanye ukusa kwinqanaba elincinane lokuhlasela ngokuma phezu kwalo de lizole.
Ezi zihlandlo zokudlala zabantwana zibalulekile kuye., ekubeni ngokubulela kubo ifunda izinto ezixabisekileyo ezinjengalezi: ukunyathela, ukulawula amandla okuluma, ukunxulumana nabanye, ukutsiba, ukubaleka nokubambisa.
Ngesi sizathu, Iingcali zokuziphatha kwekati zicebisa ukuba zingahlukanisi ikati kunina kude kube ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubudala. Ngoku, ngaphambili, eneenyanga ezimbini, yaye nanini na kunokwenzeka, kucebiseka ukuba intsapho yakhe engabantu iqalise ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye. Kodwa udlala njani nekati okanye ikati?
Yintoni efunekayo ukuze udlale nekati?
Makhe ndithethe nawe ngale nto kuqala. Ukuze udlale nekati yakho udinga into yokudlala. Ngalo lonke ixesha. Ulusu lomntu alukhuselekanga, asinazo nwele. Kwaye ikwabhityile kakhulu. Ukuze angakulimazi, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba unayo into yokudlala esandleni. Kwaye unethamsanqa, kuba izinto ezilula njengebhola yefoyile ye-aluminium okanye iteyiphu yentambo, intambo okanye ibhokisi yekhadibhodi, iya kunceda isilwanyana ukuba sibe nexesha elimnandi lokuzonwabisa.
Kodwa oku akuphelelanga apho. Kwakhona Kubalulekile ukuba ube nomonde, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuphephe ukwenza iintshukumo ngesiquphe. Ikati sisilwanyana esikhohlakeleyo; amaxhoba abo, kananjalo. Umzekelo, ukubeka isandla sakho esiswini kwaye usihambisa ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye kuya kwenza ukuba ikati ifunde ukukuluma. Kwaye kulungile, ukuba lintshontsho lekati aliyi kubuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa xa likhula kwaye likuluma, awuyi kucinga okufanayo; kungoko kuyimfuneko ukudlala naye ngokuzolileyo.
Ndidlala njani nekati yam?
Ngelixa iseshoni yomdlalo iqhubeka, kufuneka ube 'lixhoba' lakhe, kodwa ushiye into yokudlala ukuze ayibambe.. Ngamanye amazwi: cinga ukuba njengento yokudlala unebhola. Ewe, into omele uyenze kukumema ukuba adlale naye, athathe ingqalelo yakhe ngokuthetha igama lakhe ngendlela evuyayo, ezenza ngathi uphosa ibhola (kodwa ngaphandle kokuyiphosa ngokwenene). Ngokukhawuleza xa ekunika ingqalelo efanelekileyo, oko kukuthi, xa engakususi amehlo akhe (okanye kunoko, into yokudlala), into omele uyenze kukuphosa ibhola ukuze iqengqeleke phantsi.
Into eqhelekileyo kukuba lo unoboya uya emva kwakhe. Ungayithabatha okanye ungayithatha, kodwa oku kuxhomekeke kakhulu kumntu ngamnye. Umzekelo, i-bug yam yekati ithatha kuphela xa ifuna ukudlala, kodwa kungekhona ngexesha leeseshoni zokudlala. Ukuba akayibambi into yakhe yokudlala, uyayithatha uze uyiphosele kuye. Kanjalo amaxesha amaninzi, ade adinwe. Yonke ikati yahlukile, kodwa ungakhathazeki: kancinci kancinci uya kumazi ngcono, ngenxa yolonwabo kunye nokuhlalisana.
Ukuba into onayo yintambo, kubalulekile ukuba ibe bubude obuziisentimitha ezingama-40 ukuze kungabikho mngcipheko wokuba ikukrwele okanye ikulume.. Yibambe ngesiphelo esinye, kwaye wenze iintshukumo ezigudileyo. Ngexesha elithile, unokwenza ukunyakaza ngokukhawuleza. Ingcamango ngentambo kukuxelisa intaka encinci. Ngoko ke yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ungenzi kube lula kuye ukuba ayibambise (kodwa yiba ulungile: nawe kufuneka umthintele ekubeni akhathazeke. Mvumele ukuba ayibambe kube kanye ngexesha).
Ndiyazi njani ukuba udiniwe?
Oku kulula: ikati ediniweyo phantse ihlala ilala ekoneni. I-bug iphinde ikhefuze okomzuzwana. Qaphela: ukuba ikati yakho iyakhefuzela kwaye ibikade ingadlali, kufuneka uyise kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Kuqhelekile ukuba ahefuze xa ebaleka kangangexesha elithile, kodwa ukuba akukho zizathu zicacileyo, sifanele sikhathazeke size sithabathe amanyathelo.
Olunye uphawu olubonisa ukuba akasafuni ukudlala lulo ulahlekelwa ngumdla kwinto yokudlala. Uqhubekeka nomzekelo webhola, ukuba umphosela kuye ukuze ibe secaleni kwakhe, ayijonge kodwa ayihoye, ukuxelela ukuba akafuni kuqhubeka, okwangoku.
Kufuneka udlale ixesha elingakanani nekati?
Akukho mpendulo icacileyo, ngoko Kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiminyaka yekati, imeko yempilo yayo, kunye nomnqweno wayo wokudlala.. Kodwa heyi, ukuze ufumane umbono, iikati zineeseshoni zokudlala ezimfutshane, kodwa rhoqo. Xa ikati isencinci, oko kukuthi, phakathi kwe-1 kunye ne-3 ubudala, iqala ukufuna ukudlala ngaphantsi, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba iiseshoni ezi-2-3 zemizuzu engama-20-30 inokwanela kuyo. Xa sele ekhulile, umdla kumdlalo uyaqhubeka uphela, kodwa kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqhubeke udlala naye ukuze umgcine emile, umzekelo kwiiseshoni ezimbini zemizuzu engama-20.
Kodwa oku, njengoko ndithethayo, kufuneka kuthathwe nge-tweezers. U-Bicho uneminyaka emi-3 ubudala (ngonyaka wama-2020) kwaye akakwazi ukumelana neseshini yemizuzu engama-30 nangona eyikati ethanda ukudlala. Ke into esiyenzayo kukudlala amaxesha angama-3-4 ngosuku, imizuzu eyi-10-15.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba uyizame. Ixesha lithatha ixesha elingakanani ikati yakho ukuba idinwe, kwaye gcina iso xa iphinda isebenza kwakhona, kwaye ukusuka apho unokufumanisa ukuba zingaphi iiseshini ozifunayo.
Umdlalo weekati ungaphezulu kokuzonwabisa. Yindlela emangalisayo kwaye emangalisayo yokudibanisa. Ke ngoko, ungalibazisi ukudlala nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine.