Ukuziphatha kwekati phantse kusoloko kuyimfihlakalo. Akukhathaliseki nokuba bayintoni na ikati enkulu iyazalaIinwele ezinde okanye ezimfutshane, indlela abaziphatha ngayo ngamanye amaxesha ibonakala ingekho ngqiqweni. Angayichaza njani enye indlela yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga njengomkhuba wakhe othandekayo wokukujonga ezinzulwini zobusuku okanye ukukuzisela impuku efileyo kwisidlo sakusasa?
Ngapha koko, indlela yokuziphatha kweekati, nangona ingaqhelekanga (ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba inokwahluka ukusuka kwikati ukuya kwenye) inengqiqo engaphezulu kunokuba ibonakala, njengoko siza kufumanisa ngezantsi, ngoko qhubeka ufunda!
abafundi bezonka
Zonke iikati zethu (kwaye sinazo ezimbalwa) zithanda ingubo enye: uboya obushinyeneyo, obufukufuku, obufana nelynx (ngokuqinisekileyo uboya obungeyonyani). Xa ilixesha lokulala, wonke umntu wenza okufanayo. Bakhwela phezu kwengubo bajike benyuka, ngathi bafuna ukuyithambisa, bandule ukuyixova ngokwandisa iinzwane zabo. kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bade bawufunxe kwaye bahlambuluke.
Le yenye yezona ndlela zokuziphatha zekati ezithandekayo, kungekuphela nje ngenxa yokuhlanjululwa kunye nolonwabo abaludluliselayo, kodwa nangenxa yengqiqo yabo efihliweyo. Ingubo ibakhumbuza xa babeziibhola ezincinci zeenwele kwaye benza okufanayo kunina ukuze ubisi luphume ngcono.
Ikati yakho iyakuthanda kwaye ikubonisa yona
Kubantu abatsha, uthando olusasazwa ziikati lunokuhlala lufihliwe, nangona sele uyazi indlela yokulwahlula, awuyi kuyeka ukulibona kuyo yonke indawo.. Ezinye zezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo ikati yakho ebonisa ngayo uthando kuwe zibandakanya ukuzisa iziphatho zasekhaya (nangona kubo umbono wonyango sisigulo esifileyo esihlwempuzekileyo), ujonge kuwe, kwaye uqhwanyaza kancinci (hayi, akacwangcisi okona kulungileyo. indlela yokukubulala) okanye ukhethe isiketi sakho njengendawo yokulala (iindawo abakhetha ukulala kuzo zezo bazigqala zikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo).
Ijekhiphothi? Akukho nto inokuncoma ngakumbi xa ikati ibetha intloko yayo ngokuchasene neyakho. (okanye ngokuchasene nobuso bakho). Bakumakisha ukuze unuke njengabo!
Umkhondo womdyarho ekhaya
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuba nekati kululonwabo. Balala emathangeni akho ngelixa ubukele imuvi okanye ufunda incwadi ehlanjululwayo ngolonwabo. Bahlala bevuya xa ufika ekhaya. Balala nawe bayolala...
...kwaye ke iphupha elibi liyaqala. Yintsimbi yesibini ebusuku, kufuneka uvuke ekuseni ngosuku olulandelayo, kwaye ngequbuliso indlu yakho ibonakala ngathi ngumdyarho ogcwele igazi. Ikati ibonakala inomoya: iyatsiba, ibaleka inyuka inyuka, ibaleka ingayeki kwaye itsibe ebhedini yakho ukuze ungalali., ukuba awise umthetho ebusuku.
Nokuba iyakuphambanisa Inyaniso kukuba yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuziphatha, ngakumbi kwiikati ezincinci. Ukuba zizilwanyana zasebusuku, iikati zidla ngokuphapha ngakumbi ebusuku, kwaye ukuba azidlalanga emini, kufuneka ziwatshise loo mandla agqithisileyo. Yiyo loo nto kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uchithe ixesha elithile yonke imihla udlala nabo, okanye, ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, fumana enye ikati oza kudlala kunye kwaye ugcine inkampani. Elinye iqhinga elisebenza kakuhle kukubeka isidlo kubo ngaphambi nje kokuba ulale. Le yindlela eziya kulandela ngayo umjikelo wendalo wezi zilwanyana: ukutya, ukuzilungisa nokulala.
Loo ndawo igudileyo ekungahambekiyo
Hayi, amathumbu eekati. Loo paradesi ithambileyo nefudumeleyo, loo ndawo iphantse ifane yasentsomini ebonakala nje kwiintsomi. Kuthiwa ngeentsuku xa iiplanethi zilungelelaniswa, ikati yakho ikubonisa isisu sayo kwaye wena, ukhazimle, ufikelele kwaye unesibindi sokuxubha obo boya buthambileyo ngeminwe yakho kwaye ngequbuliso ... umgibe webhere? Hayi, ikati ivalele isandla sakho ngamathupha kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iyakukrwempa kwaye ikulume ngokungathi akukho ngomso..
Isizathu sisengqiqweni ngakumbi kunokuba sibonakala ekuqaleni. Amathumbu yeyona ndawo isengozini kwezi zilwanyana, yiyo loo nto zithanda ukuyikhusela kakhulu. Ke ngoko, uzive unethamsanqa ukuba ikati yakho ikubonisa isisu sayo, kuba bayenza kuphela nomntu abamthembayo, ukubabonisa, ngokuchanekileyo, ukuba bayamthemba. Ngoku, zama ukungcatsha loo ntembelo kwaye abayi kuthandabuza ukushiya isandla sakho njenge-chrome.
Yiyiphi indlela yokuziphatha esifanele siyilandele ukuba ikati yethu isibonisa amathumbu ayo? Kwiimeko ezininzi ngokulula “kukujonga kodwa ungachukumisi” (ngaphandle kweCroissant yethu, othi ngesizathu esithile esingaqondakaliyo athande ukukrwelwa isisu sakhe). Siyazi ukuba ukuxhathisa isilingo ngumsebenzi ongaphezu kwamandla omntu. Tyhila!
Lala kuyo yonke indawo… ngaphandle kwebhedi yakho
Eyona meko iqhelekileyo ekuziphatheni kweekati ine-protagonist yayo ibhedi engayisebenzisi ikati ... kunye nendlu yonke. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ibhedi yakhe ixabisa ngaphezulu kweyakho kwaye umthengele olona phawu lubalaseleyo emarikeni, kubonakala ngathi ezi zilwanyana zithanda ukulala kuyo yonke indawo kodwa apho zikhoyo.
Kwakhona, oku kuziphatha kunengqiqo ngakumbi kunokuba kubonakala. Umzekelo, isizathu sokukhetha kwakhe iindawo eziphakamileyo sihambelana neentsuku zakhe zasentlango: ukusuka kwindawo ephakamileyo banokulawula okwenzekayo okubangqongileyo, okukhokelela ekubeni bazive bekhuselekile ngakumbi.
Kwenzeka into efanayo xa ikati yakho ikhetha ukungena kwiindawo ezincinci kunye nezimxinwa ezifana neebhokisi, i-closet yelinen ... Ziindawo apho baziva bekhuselekile, kuba babanika ukhuseleko olongezelelweyo kwaye bangabashiyi ekuhleni, apho zazinokuba zizisulu zamarhamncwa.
Ukuziphatha kwekati kunomdla kwaye akumangalisi xa sifunda ingqiqo emva kwayo., YINYANISO? Sixelele, ngaba ikati yakho iziphatha ngendlela engaqhelekanga okanye ekhethekileyo? Ngaba uyazazi izizathu ezifihlakeleyo ezibangela ukuziphatha kwabo? Sixelele kwizimvo!